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i feel like shit all the time because my BEST best friend is acting like she hates me. i know this is how she acts when she starts disliking people's attention because it's what she did with mutual friends that we both started to dislike, but it's always been us against the world. we've been so close and we've talked for hours about how we've always had an even relationship and no matter what happens we can always fall back on each-other, and now she's decided i'm not worth her time. it started when she was upset with me for spending a lot of time with a new friend, which is understandable, but when i apologized and promised to be better about managing my friendships and time, she seemed reluctant to accept the apology and grew distant from me, latching onto other people and leaving me on read and ignoring my messages. she asked me to give her space back when we had out argument, but now that we're no longer doing that she's just being generally an asshole to me. i resent her friends for stealing her from me even though i'm friends with them too--all the stuff we'd talk about and call eachother switched around to being with the other friend and not me. i asked her straight-up if we were still best friends and she literally said "i guess," which is pretty fucking harrowing. she's been pretty busy with uni and she's used that as an excuse plenty of times, even going so far as to say to not expect her to talk to me much, which i totally understood! but at a certain point, it seems like she's still talking to her new friends a lot, and just neglecting me and using uni as an excuse. i understand that she's busy, but it's really not looking like that's the only factor, or even the main factor. it sucks, and i don't know what to do.
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It’s understandable why you grew an emotional attachment to her she was your best friend but I think that maybe you should let it go. It seems to me that you are holding onto it and it’s not working in your favor which could be the most common signs that this relationship isn’t working and you should let it go especially if it’s a constant thing. Energy’s never lie and if you feel some kind of way about the way she acts maybe telling her that the vibe is off but she seems to be very aware of the issue being that she’s causing the issue making you feel real distant she might be emotionally stressing you out making you feel like your emotions aren’t valid ( the argument for example )
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