novni
  • Write Anonymously
  • Offer Support
  • Get Inspired
  • Show Navigation
  • Talk to a counselor online, anytime. Start feeling better today.
    Talk to a Counselor
  • Guest User
  • Write Anonymously
  • Offer Support
  • Get Inspired
  • Professional Support
  • Online Counseling
  • Helplines
  • General
  • Sign Up
  • Log In

What are you looking for?

Featured Topics

Select a topic to start reading.

  • Advice
  • Anxiety
  • Breakup
  • Depression
  • Loneliness
  • Love
  • Need Advice
  • Poetry
  • Relationships
  • Stress
  • Suicide
  • Thoughts
Flag this Post

Toxic fam

4 months ago · 4 · toxic family, +9


150

Can u grow as a person around a toxic family? Or atleast not let them affect u anymore? Is that even possible?

Please read our commenting guidelines before responding. Read now.

You are commenting as a guest. To choose your username either log in or sign up.

If you see a comment that is unsupportive or unfriendly, please report it using the flag button.

  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    I can’t say 100% that specific things won’t stick to you but I know for sure that you can choose to be whatever person you want to be outside of your toxic family. When you (if you can) get outside for a moment maybe join a club of something, you realise how tiny of a world your family has shaped your views and put you in a box in. If life were a game, they were only party of your storyline, as the main character you can decided to grow and live and laugh and find whatever it is you desire.

    Reply
    • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

      You have no idea hoq much i needed to hear that... Ty so much ❤️

      Reply
    • Novni Guest · 1 week ago

      Well, not trynna discourage the post writer here but sometimes no matter how hard you try , you realise that you ain't the main character and are maybe just a martyr or a side character

      Reply
  • Novni Guest · 1 week ago

    The answer is no...This isn't cinderella, you are born and grown in that type of environment, it's gonna be a part of your life, personality, your way of thinking, it'll forever be a part of YOU...but you can kinda control that part of you .....maybe ?

    Reply

More Posts

  • Family.

    This is my first time writing something of this sort. I am not in the most well of my mind as I am writing as I am still crying. I am 13 years old, and I ha...

    4 months ago · 3
  • Untitled

    I remember dad whining in a mental state saying afraid he wasn't gonna make it to age xx. Now he just squanders life chasing after drugs when we should be try...

    4 months ago
Into music? Listen to this wellbeing playlist on Spotify today. AD This is a sponsored link
  • Write Anonymously
  • Offer Support
  • Get Inspired
  • Helplines
  • FAQ
  • Our Policies
  • Our Story
  • Contact Novni
  • Log In
  • Sign Up