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so my boyfriend cheated on me kinda? he had been talking to his ex for a couple of weeks and they even sexted and sent each other nudes. when i confronted him about it, he told me he was only going along with everything she said because she's really depressed and he felt bad for her?
now i know that's pretty much bullshit but he was extremely sincere in his apology and swears up and down he only wants me, it was a stupid mistake, and he's blocked her on everything.
he's a really shy and non-confrontational person, so it kinda makes sense to me that he felt pressured by her, but i guess i'm kind of biased since i like him.
i was just wondering what other people would think about it, from an outside perspective. do you think he's being sincere and he really does like me? or should i just end it
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I would suggest to end it, that’s no excuse for doing that and even non confrontational people don’t respond when they don’t want to if he was replying to her sexting that’s enough evidence, I personally wouldn’t have it and the fact he didn’t say he had a girlfriend shows
Replyhe did tell her he had a girlfriend though. that part confuses me because i don't understand why she would initiate anything if she knew he had a girlfriend, but i guess some girls are just like that
ReplyIf he says that he truly loves you, he wouldn't have done that in the first place. He would've just acted as a friend, towards his ex, if she was really going through something. I think him being shy and non-confrontational, shouldn't be an excuse. He should've known, at that moment, that he was doing something wrong. I am so sorry this happened. Just think about everything that has happened. Think about all of the possibilities and trust your gut. If you are not with him or if you are currently with him, just think about what will happen in the future. Do you think he'll make the same mistake? Do you think you can trust him again?
ReplyAlso, sexting, is a number one, MAJOR, red flag. Just please, really think it everything over. Don't do anyting off of impulse. Have a calm mind. Think about the heartbreak.
Replyi am currently still with him, this is something that happened about a week ago. i've basically already decided that i'm not going to break up with him, the problem i have now is all my friends hate him and are telling me to end it. i really do think i can trust him and he won't do it again
ReplyThe non-confrontational ones are usually the easiest to manipulate. I have heard of many stories where a person played themselves off as being "depressed" and used that as an excuse to get sexual favors from someone of their interest. I am sure your boyfriend was being sincere; his ex, however, is not. Suggest to him that he was being manipulated.
Replywe've talked about it, he did tell me that he felt pressured and i understand that. i think your comment is exactly how i feel right now and i'm glad someone shares my opinion. i know he's in the wrong, he did cheat on me, but his sincere apology and the fact that he did feel pressured makes me want to stay with him
ReplyHe was sincere and knows what he did was wrong. Now, you must decide whether to forgive him and live on with him at your side, or leave him behind in unforgiveness.
ReplyYou've got yourself a Beta male there.
Replyare you sure he's not the one making the contact? if he is, that's only done because you wish for something from the person, not anything to do with their state of mind really.
Replyhis ex was the one that contacted him first, and when i talked to her about it she was very apologetic to me and told me that she was the one that initiated everything. i guess she could be lying, but i feel like she has no reason to?
ReplyTIT FOR TAT, U SHOULD ALSO DO THE SAME THINGS WITH OTHER GUYS( SEXTING AND ALL), SO IT GET BALANCED.
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