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I dont like how I look..

4 months ago · 5 · Physical Health, +2 · Explicit


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When I go to school they will call me things like 'hairy arms' or 'ugly bitch' or 'pimple face' because I have a big birth mark on my fore head, my arms are hairy because I'm not allowed to shave, and I dont like how greasy my hair is, or how flat my chest is (im a girl), or how big my legs are, or how easily people can take advatage of me because I don't feel good about myself. I stress eat, I get pimples under my nose whenever l wear a mask, and I am always slouching. I dont know what to do.

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  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    You tell them to stop and keep being yourself. Work on issues you're comfortable with but be gentle to yourself. Normal people don't go around destroying others. They got the problem not you. Stay strong hon xx

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  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    No worries, seriously. It mostly temporary. I know saying this may not make you feel better now but itโ€™s true. I knew several girls in school exactly as you explained yourself and they turned out to be the most beautiful women from my class.

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    • issie_1013 · 4 months ago

      Thank you.. It helps.

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  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    Why are you not allowed to shave? It's YOUR body. Tell those people to fuck off. Are you going to go through life doing what OTHER people want you to do? What if someone tells you to jump off a cliff? Are you going to oblige? Think for yourself.

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  • avencr · 4 months ago

    beauty is subjective. the only person's opinion on your physical appearance that matters is your own. when you admit to yourself that you are beautiful, other people will see your confidence radiating through you and perceive you just as you perceive yourself.

    and also, everyone has hair on their arms. that's totally normal. the girls you think are more beautiful than you have hair on their arms too, and they get the same pimples under their nose.

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