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My brother is so unsatisfied in his life.I I don't understand why he is so unsatisfied when he has so much in his life. He came from a good caring family with loving parents. He has had a new baby a loving wife. He just came back from a month long holiday in Australia. The thing that irritates me the most is that he thinks that I need to do more in my life! . When I am satisfied and content. I don't have any issues with my life at all but I find it really annoying that he thinks that I am not fulfilling my life when I am totally fine! I think success is non quantifiable. You define your own success. It could be getting out of bed if you suffer depression. Or leaving the house if you are agoraphobic. I have a job which is interesting. It pays me an okay , steady wage which funds the things I need and the thing I enjoy doing in my spare time. I enjoy my life. I just find It so frustrating when he brings me down by telling I'm not doing enough with my skills or I'm not spending my time well enough. I'm worried he is going to project his way of thinking onto my niece so she will never be satisfied with her life or maybe she might think less of the rest of us for not "doing more ". So upsetting.
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