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Speak my boundaries

3 months ago · 2 · Need Advice, +8


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I always had this issue.. That i can't say anything when sth is making me feel uncomfortable, i can't stand up for myself, like if someone took my place in the line i can't say ath or when someone is sitting next to me and they take too much space that it makes me uncomfortable. I can't speak about any of my boundaries and i feel like if i did the person will embarrass me or will get defensive idk what's the reason behind it and im really growing tired of it.

Maybe it's bec of my Social anxiety idk

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  • Novni Guest · 3 months ago

    I know the feeling. Can’t say I mastered it. My advice would be

    Avoid people who repeatedly disrespect your boundaries like the plague

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  • Novni Guest · 3 months ago

    I too feel that way.Let's try to speak for ourselves now.Since nobody owes to no one .since we are not their slaves and we have the same equal right like they have;)

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