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when you say bf or gf

4 months ago · 6 · Love, +6


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When you say "so-and-so's girlfriend", or "this person's boyfriend", you don't feel a lot. I mean you're like, "oh they love each other okay"

But in truth it's like a whole world of love history, exciting moments, shy atmospheres, all that. I wish when people said "my gf" or "my bf" they'd regard them as something more than just a temporary lover.

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  • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

    Throwaway society. Blame capitalism

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  • boycrazychic08 · 4 months ago

    I wish I was considered even a temporary lover to someone. I’ve been hurt by a few guys and I feel really lonely. I will hang myself because no one loves me.

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    • Novni Guest · 4 months ago

      Don't kill yourself. I don't like it when others hurt themselves because they believe life is too painful. It hurts me to see others like this and I know it sounds selfish. But really listen to and believe this: One day, someone's gonna love you with all your heart. Just believe it because even if it doesn't come true, it's the one hope that keeps us all alive.

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      • boycrazychic08 · 4 months ago

        Life is too painful though…

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        • Novni Guest · 3 months ago

          Life is painful for all of us. We all have standards about pain, but we all have it. But when you endure the pain, there'll be a reward in the end. This life isn't meant to be thrown away; It's meant to be lived out and rewarded.

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          • boycrazychic08 · 3 months ago

            Yeah well being 14 is hard as it is and my depression makes it worse. I just want to enjoy my time before I enter freshman year.

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