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I need help. I love this guy, a lot….but I also know that it’s not going to work out. We are on 2 different paths. I am trying to Achieve my goals and do great things but he’s smoking all day with friends, jumping from one job to the other and not taking life seriously. When I try to help him, he says he’s trying but I really don’t think he is. I am at the point In my life rn where I can’t afford to babysit anyone and I can’t afford distractions. I’m building and stacking up for my future. So everything matters. He doesn’t understand that. And he says that if I love him I wouldn’t leave him but even though I love him, I have to do what’s best for me and what I will be proud of. What should I do ? Please help ?
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We may pay dearly for our choices. He seems to have made his. And, so do you.
I couldn't agree more with you on looking after yourself, and making sure you'll have a brighter future. I'd do the same. However, I think you'd have to move on. You might find another man whose relationship would work out for both of you.
You can't afford distractions nor babysit one. Not only that, but you seem to love him so much to the point of looking after him. Couldn't it get any harder? I believe that in a relationship, two people should work on a common goal. Otherwise, it might harder for one (even though there'll be times in which one of you must press on for a while, and vice-versa).
Does he love you? Will he make the choice of changing his lifestyle, so he can be with you? Aren't there other men in your area that'd be a good fit for you?
ReplyLove yourself first. If you don't help yourself first, you can't help others. I know you love him but dislike things about him, but sacrificing (whichever way it is) is something we all have to experience.
ReplyAchieve your goals and move forward with your life. All while having him in your peripheral. Dont get too emotionally attached. And always have the exception in mind that you and him will not last.
ReplyYOU DESERVE SO MUCH MORE! I can just tell that you think that he is all you can get but youre wrong if he really loved you why is he manipulating you to belive that if you cant stay with him it means you dont love him of course you love him but if he loves you needs to realize that he is hurting you and if knows that hes making your life difficult and doesnt do anything to help he doesnt love you a relationship is also a partnership and if he isnt contributing to your team then he's not the right partner........all im saying is youre a queen so why should you settle for a snack when you can have a meal :)
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