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I've always been a very insecure person. I had a boyfriend. On many occasions he told me his friends think he can do better than me. Friends who didn't even know me. Just bcoz I wasn't the prettiest girl. He told me he thought he was out of my league. On another day, he told me he believed his friend and he thought he could do better than me and that I was not good enough. I didn't even know this friend. Now imagine you're 18 years old, already struggling with body image and acceptance, and the one person you would have given the world to, thinks this way about you. Still I stuck along longer than I should have . He wasn't a great guy, he had a terrible temper , would say a lot of mean things and didn't treat me quite well. He broke up with me some time ago. Started dating another girl 2 weeks later. Which again made me feel terrible and not good enough. I kept looking up the new girl, comparing myself, seeing that she was everything I was not. Those "friends" of his would have forgotten about all this, but I without even knowing what they sound like, can hear their voices everyday. It's over 2 years. It's crazy how I believe someone who said something without even knowing me . But here I am. I'm struggling more than ever and feel absolutely worthless. It sucks how I can genuinely find beauty in EVERYONE except myself.
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But you know deep down he’s a tosser. Find someone who treats you well regardless of looks and isn’t so superficial.
ReplyI think nothing is wrong with you ... it was him who made you feel like this . First of all if someone truly loves you that person would never let anybody else talk shit about you . Which he clearly didn't do and on the top of that he had the audacity to tell you that you aren't good enough . Then why the hell he was dating you in the first place . You accept it or not some people are dooshbag and that's exactly what he was . He was just trying to make you feel insecure about yourself nothing else . So don't let him and his shitty friends words get to you .Honestly if it was me in your place I would have fought with him and had dumped him at that moment. Firstly if someone likes you that person is supposed to make you feel good about yourself and most importantly they would never compare you with any other single sole . So Don't be insecure and Don't give their words attention and please be more confident you are beautiful in your own way 💜
ReplyLooking at this, seems like you're the one who can do better hon♥️
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