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I'm starting to think that I'm meant to be alone. No matter how hard I try to befriend everyone, at the end of the day, not everyone wants to make time for me. I've gone out of my comfort zone to reach out to people, make time for them, talk to them, help/comfort them. But, after all I've done for people, it just seems like I am not worth their time. It's like I'm just a nobody. I'm just someone you see once or twice and ignore forever. I've gotten used to feeling lonely--no messages everyday, no big friend groups. I was an introvert before, but I forced myself to socialize more. Nowadays, I consider myself an ambivert, and I'm glad that I now know how to socialize better. But, still, even after all I've done, I just don't receive anything back. On one hand I want people to spend time with me or just give me something in return. On the other hand, I always feel bad about myself and tell myself that I'm being selfish for wanting people to make time for me. I'm not asking for a million dollars, or asking people to die for me. Just "How are you?" or "You wanna hang out?" or "This reminds me of you" texts would make me the happiest person in the world. I'm getting used to being alone and feeling lonely, and I don't like the fact that I'm used to it. I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't know what else I need to do to gain the slightest bit of love from people.
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I can relate sometimes we just want people to show they love and care for us and there's nothing wrong in that , to be honest I'm in the exact situation myself I don't know what to do
ReplyI never thought that I could relate to someone else so much, but this is exactly what I just wrote about, it is a horrible feeling what you are going through trust me I understand 100% , and it always seems like the ones who are trying to make you feel better about your situation are people who would never understand, people with s/o and friends, I don’t have any advice or anything, just saying that you are not alone in this feeling. I don’t know anything about you but if you wanna be friends my Snapchat is imsophia123.
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