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Today, I and my new friends went out to eat. Eventually the topic about love life came. When they asked me about my bf, they were so shocked that I told them I never had any boyfriend yet. They're 3 years younger than me but they already have at least 1 experience about romantic love but I don't. I wasn't offended by their reaction at all. I even found their reaction funny. It's just I realized I'm already getting old (mid 20s) and others are getting married, having their lives, and starting their family but I'm still all alone.
I don't feel sad about being alone. I just feel sad and ugly because nobody chose me. I really feel ugly. I know I'm not ugly but I just feel like I am. And it hurts a bit. It makes my spirit down. I'm actually happy being single but... Sometimes insecurity just simply knocks on my door asking me how I am doing from time to time.
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I don't think you are ugly but you are just the type of person who don't prioritize boyfriend, i can't understand some people who think that if we are not married or not in a relationship means that we are unlucky,ugly. Infact people who don't choose to impress public standards are much more happier than those who brag about how they are married and having a happy life. You even mentioned that you feel happy the way you are and if people don't choose you can choose them. believe me don't get insecure and mid twenties isn't old ♥♥
ReplyYour second thoughts are coming out of SOMEWHERE. If you have doubts and insecurities, and you're not proud of your decision to stay single for life, then it means you are lying to yourself and you do want a boyfriend.
You're not ugly. Just take care of your physical AND mental health. Seek therapy. Do fashion. And get an ARRANGED marriage. Dating these days is a joke. Then promise him to never get a divorce no matter what happens.
ReplyYou won't be getting old until you are 60.
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