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Sooooooooo..... I have a serious confession to make that also makes me feel guilty. I'm a teenager and I have done some really gross things (to myself) and it just makes me feel totally bad about what I am doing. Is it wrong or is it right? I don't know anymore. I need some advice...please
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There is nothing wrong if the 'really gross things' you have done to yourself is something you want to explore. Remember your body is your temple and it should be looked at and treated as you pleased.
ReplyWell, what does gross things mean? If u mean drugs and adult things then please don't do that to yourself. You're not gonna be happy with your later life. Plus if you feel bad about what you did then you should know that you should not do that to yourself. But if it's not about things like that, tell me what you mean in more detail if you're okay with that! I'm here for u!
ReplyUmmmm not drugs or any adult things. More like sexually.
ReplySince you are writing about it I don't think it is something you feel is right internally, if so, how are you able to minimize/quit what you are doing so that you do not feel this "guilt." Some pleasures in life give us a short satisfaction, but make us worse after. So I would work on stopping/minimizing what you are doing. That is my opinion..
ReplyAbsolutely. Passion is not something you come by by mere touch alone. It involves your heart, your intentions, your emotions. If you are doing something sexually lacking these things I mentioned, you got nothing there, so why bother. Also, there are people in this world who take sexually while deliberately blocking the three things I mentioned (heart, intention, emotion) because they are evil or very lost. Don’t do things with these people and definitely don’t become them. It is a fast road to unhappiness for sure.
ReplyMiddle aged male here and a swinger so I have had plenty of experience with sexual encounters and have heard countless sex stories from others in this activity.
That said, I can sum this up pretty quickly.
You're a teenager and it's natural to have sexual thoughts and to act on those.
When exploring sexually, you could be alone or with others to "try something new". Try to let yourself go and try things you otherwise wouldn't have thought of or would typically assume you wouldn't like. You might be surprised. If it was fun, keep it on the list and do it again sometime. If it wasn't fun, take it off the list and don't do it again.
I don't think you should feel strange or "guilty" for trying something new but, you said "it just makes me feel totally bad about what I am doing" and that, alone, would suggest that this is an item that should be removed from your list. Seems like you either didn't enjoy it or feel bad about it after the fact. Either way, you feel "totally bad" about it so just don't do that again.
Don't feel bad, though, about exploring. That's a natural thing to do. How else would you discover what makes you feel good sexually?
Good Luck!
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