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I am in a weird situation in which my mind suggests me something but my heart wants something else. If you are reading this then maybe you may help me.
My mind
•don't look out for a girlfriend. You are broke.
•Relationship takes time and you don't have much time (coz im a student)
•focus on something that will make your future.
•Girls are distraction, focus on your life.
•Being alone is much better coz you can enjoy peace (I like peace ima introvert)
•time of enjoying is over. Get up and struggle.
•relationship will make you weak.
My heart
• I want a girl in my life.
•I want to hug and kiss a girl once.
•I want a peace of mind free of financial struggle.
•I just want to be loved by some girl who can hug me and Pat my head and say its alright.
•I actually want to cry hugging on her tight.
• I WANT TO BE IN A TRUE RELATIONSHIP.
Mind is right and heart is in need. Dont know what to do. Still struggline everyday just to figure out what I want in my life.
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Honestly relationships today might disappoint you. You shouldn't be depressed if you're going to school. But at the same time if you have a girl in mind then go for it. I wouldn't look for one though cuz you gotta do yourself in this point of life.
ReplyI mean a college student. Where everyone busy with their girlfriends. My heart doesn't need this because of surrounding influence. Rather its just a will.
ReplyWell if you decide to get a girl take things very slow.
ReplyYou don't have to have answers to everything. Finding a balance between our mind and heart, is really hard. I would almost say you cannot chose one or the other. Sometimes I say that you should always follow your heart no matter what. And other times I say you have think before you act. Everything needs a little bit of thinking before we act, but sometimes we just have to let go a little bit and just live, to say F* ck it. But with love, that is not something we can plan out. When it happens it happens. When you meet a girl you love so dearly, everything else won't matter as much anymore. Then your heart and your love for her, will tell your mind what direction you want to take. As much as it is good that we think things through and listen to our minds, it's sometimes the worst thing we can do. Sometimes we have to let go of things in life, to let go of the worries and the overthinking. I believe that when you find the girl your looking for, the time will be right. There is no need to rush things or to feel pressure of being with someone. Take your time, find your way in life that works for you, what makes you happy and okay. And let everything else just happen, love will come your way when it's the right time
ReplySo, "I should go on with my life and wait for right time and right person. It will come automatically". This summary of your comment relives me now. I can carry on with my life. Thank you a kind stranger :)
ReplyThe girl won’t heal you, but a relationship can be nice. I empathize
Replyalways follow your heart:)
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