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Here’s an interesting story how I find out FWB not worth it as well. I’m a female with lost hope for relationships and I was a virgin and agreed to be friends with benefit with a guy for quite sometime and I was 28 years old. We just meet up for you know to bang and we only did like 5-6 times. I always had high standards and it all started because I was depressed and thought I’m gonna die a virgin during this COVID pandemic and l always been curious about sex. But after few times doing it, somehow he thought I would be okay to be doing it in onlyfans and thought it would be cool getting paid for it. He knew I’m not that type of girl and I always treated him with respect. Why did he think that I will be okay with that? Basically to do porn online. What the fuck is wrong with some guys? Just because I agree to be FWB doesn’t mean I have no self respect. The sexual intimacy should be private between us to fulfill our desires.Since it’s so hard to find the right guy for relationship these days I thought maybe FWB will be okay. Now I feel like I have downgraded myself because he thought I will be cool with that. I’m so upset that he view me like I have no dignity. So I ended FWB with no regret. I vowed to myself not to involve in this type of nonsense again. Apparently, it’s only cool when guys do FWB, when girl do it they think we are cheap and some whore or smtg. I respect myself. Just once I tried something like this, I feel like I have self sabotaged myself and I’m so upset he think of me cheaply. Am I not worthy of respect?
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you are worth more then u think and don't worry i am curious about things too like i wanna do it with a girl hang in there girly (xoxoxo)!
ReplyThank you for your kind words. I feel heard :) Really appreciate it. Bless you!
ReplyGirl, I understand your pain. If he does not respect you then that relationship is 100% toxic. Leave him and find someone who will respect you for the goddess you are.
ReplyThank you your kind comments. I appreciate that you took time to read this post. Oh, you are goddess tooo!! Yeah, I have ended it with him. I told him that I have dignity and said I don’t want to continue anymore. He did apologised but even then I felt like if he truly respected me, he wouldn’t have mentioned about doing it on onlyfans it at all in the first place. He knew I’m not that type of person yet he mentioned it. I guess he was trying his luck.
ReplyThat idiot! You're right, men who do such things are literally respected by other men, and at the same time, women who do it are looked down at with disgust.
I'm just 16,but something happened at my school.
These two kids were, well, sleeping together, and their parents found out. Now, I'm not saying they didn't deserve to be punished, but they both should've been punished. The guy got off scot-free, walks around like nothing happened, and the girl was separately 'counseled' (yelled at) by her parents, the counselor, and even her teachers. And now she's a 'dirty' bad girl who's a bad influence.
WHAT ABOUT THE GUY?
ReplyYeah! He is an idiot! Damn, that’s so unfair! Why the guys always get away with stuff like this. Ugh, society! I feel sorry for that girl. I hope she get through this. Nobody cares when guys does it.
ReplyHi lovely,
You. Are. Always. Worthy. Of. Respect.
ReplyFriends with benefits is a scam on the chics, surely at some point in the past some movie glamorized it and it caught on. But in reality it is emptiness.
Intimacy should be shared between 2 people in a mutually trusting, loving, exclusive relationship. For times when a woman is alone in life, by design within reach of her hand is something which has no other purpose but pleasure. Best of luck.
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