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This happened like 2 weeks ago but I still have that uneasy feeling on my shoulders.
My boyfriend has a friend that kinda likes to hang out in this datings apps (like tinder) the guy is kinda lonely and I get it and my boyfriend too, so there's no big deal there. At first this guy was sending him screenshots of a girl he liked it and even pictures of her, I told him that was rude of him, because even if the possibility of the girl sending the same picture to other guys is kinda high since it is a date app, it was like violating her trust on him and also he was like inviting his friends to hit on the girl too (like showing a bunch of dogs a piece of meat) he told me he was going to talk about it but he didn't know how to make it stop, since he didn't want to sound rude or harsh or to even be a "sissy" since that it a common practice about his friends (this same guy kinda talks bad about some of his friends girlfriend) Buuut then happend that my boyfriend sent me an extract of his conversation to him, pointing out the guy could be a douchebag and the guy was sending him screenshots of other profiles to my boyfriend and telling him he has a chance and that he should try it; we argued, I can't deny it. I told him that it made me feel like I didn't matter and that also he was actually being lured to a possibility of having an affair with one of those girls. He apologized and felt awful about it and we actually didn't speak about it again; I asked him recently like a couple of days back, that if there's the possibility of him to being hiding if his friends keeps doing it, he told me he wouldn't try to dig much in that kind of topics but that he couldn't do anything since he can't stop his friend of doing that.
I feel defeated and also I'm developing trust issues... I don't know if this is dumb of if I should feel bad about this
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