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I have been in a relationship for almost 2 yrs now and we have been quite good so far. We are best-friends turned lovers so things sailed smoothly for us. He understood, loved and took care of me and vice versa. We have had our ups and downs too- some very rough times but we managed to get through. A few months back, we had a very serious arguement and around that time, I started to feel insecure abt my boyfriend talking to my (girl) best-friend. I just didn't like how he was so free ans easy going around her. Thats a good thing but I just felt it was too much. They joke around, he goes to her when we have relation problems, they talk till late night and she knows stuff that I don't about him. I trust them both a lot but I just don't feel right about their way. Am I overthinking or are these things normal in a rs? Should I talk to him about it or leave it to be? I am so confused.
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I don't really know but I think you should be honest and tell him. It might cause issues between you both but at least he is aware that you are uncomfortable about it. Just make sure that you communicate your feelings without accusing him or your friend. You should also tell your best friend.
ReplyIt's gonna be hard telling my best friend about him. One thing I forgot to mention was that, my best friend was in a relationship with another of my friend and they broke up so it kinda added to my insecurity
ReplyMen are not used to resisting advances and are not good at reading signs (flirting, etc.). If you don't trust your girl friend with your life and trust her to value your friendship much more than a possible relationship with a wonderful guy, there is reason to be concerned. I suggest you take some action that will put an end to this unwanted possibility. Exactly what should you do, I don't know. Don't wait around hoping for the best. Maybe you can save this relationship.
ReplyI hope I can save it
ReplyI think it would be great for you to talk to them both, separately. make sure that your bestfriend doesn't have feelings for him and he doesn't for her.
ReplyI think this is a better idea.
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