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He's in 3 of my classes. He sits by me in 2 of them. Ive had a small crush on him for forever. We used to not talk much until he started dming me on insta and we became good friends and i started liking him a lot more. I guess i got attached to him. I fell for him really hard though. I was used to texting him everyday. But one day we just stopped. And i don't know why and in school he acts like everything's ok but we haven't actually talked in months. I miss him so much and i want to tell him but i dont want to come off too strong. I was trying to avoid him and make my feelings go away but it didn't work. every time i see him everything comes rushing back. i try to be cold and distant towards him but i can't help but smile when he talks to me. i love his voice and his smile. i can't get these feelings to go away and i don't know what to do. i'm hurting every day because of him. i know he'd never like me back.
does anyone have any advice for me?
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The feeling of a crush disappears as suddenly as it came. One day he will be forgotten. Get on with your school work which is more important. It isn't like you are looking to get married yet.
ReplyAww that's so sad :(. I think u should talk to him especially if if it's been long and ur feelings for him haven't gone away. If u don't you'll always have that mystery with u but if u ask him then u will finally know why he did that. It's always better to know the truth. It will give u closure.
Best of luck!!!!!
ReplyIt seems like he has or has had feelings for you at one point as well. He might have gotten scared that he was coming on too strong or just decided it wasn't going to go anywhere. I recommend asking him to hang out sometime (without specifying whether or not it's a date) and see what his reaction is. If he says no, then I'd try to move on. If he says yes, look at how he acts on the "hang out" and go from there.
As scary as it seems, you don't have to feel embarrassed for putting yourself out there and/or hearing a no. It's a really brave thing to do and you should be immensely proud of yourself for allowing yourself to take a step towards something that could make you happy. After all, the worst thing that could happen is he could say no. If he does, that's a serious HIM problem because you are smart, strong, brave, caring, kind, funny, beautiful, and all around amazing. His loss babes. You deserve someone who knows how great you are and shows you that everyday.
Anyway, if you find out he doesn't like you back one way or another, let yourself be sad about it for 24 hours, then remember that you are a gorgeous bad a*s b*itch who doesn't need some man (ew) to validate her.
You got this! I'm already so proud of you and I love you, honey <3
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