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Recently I have been thinking about my sexuality and I think that I am demisexual. Everything that I have seen has said that demisexuals don’t have celebrity crushes. Can you be demisexual and still have celebrity crushes?
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ReplyTime is the most valuable resource we have on earth. Celeb crushes are definitely a fun way to spend free time daydreaming and catching up on their latest movie or song, but try to set some goals and accomplish them one by one, and in no time you'll figure out who you are. Best of luck.
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ReplyI may not be the best advice giver for this as I am allosexual, though I do have an asexual friend, but I think you can. Admiring somebody and thinking they're attractive isn't the same as desiring them sexually. You may have a crush on them, but you don't necessarily want to have sex with them, right? Are you alloromantic? If that's the case, yeah, you can have celebrity crushes of the 'more romantic' kind. If you're not, and you're demiromantic, aromantic, etc., you can absolutely still adore a celebrity and think they're the most attractive person you've ever seen and stuff like that, but without the typical alloromantic reaction. As a queer person who probably exclusively likes women, I still find many male celebrities handsome and attractive and had questioned if I liked dudes because of that. But I'm still queer. I recommend checking out asexual forums like AVEN to discuss with fellow ace people about navigating your sexuality.
To generalise people of the same sexuality isn't helpful. Not all gay men are effeminate, so why should all demisexual people act the same way? Please don't feel like you can't identify with demisexual due to this assumption, and feel free to interact with asexual people online and/or access more asexual-oriented resources (preferably by fellow ace people). Good luck!
ReplyThank you so much!!
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