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I am a mellow guy. I do not get into unnecessary quarrel, actually I hate to argue and quarrel. One more thing about me is that I am empath. By virtue of my past. So if anyone tells me something negative and/or try to boss me over, I will feel bad and waste a whole lot of time in ruminating why that happend. I cannot get over it and move on. I keep on ruminating.
An example is what happened this morning. My roommate asked me to clean the stove. Usually I do not reacr to it, put my head down and just go on and do it. I do the household chores and do not even tell him. I do not even care if he does his share of work or even bothers to touch something. Whenever I find time, I do all the work. I never tell him to do his share of work. He points out that I do not do any work and never acknowledges what I do. I have no idea what is worng with him. He randomnly messages me from office that I have not cleaned the washroom and to do it.
And the biggest thing is he is very opinioniated. Once I told I wanted to live in Boston because it is a great city, his reply was "Dude, boston is just costly, I can do anything and everything in boston in a small city also!". He thinks he is always right, highly opinioniated and sometimes a jerk.
I really need advice. I have to live with him for a couple more months.
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Deal with him for the minimum time you have to. Don't spend free time with him if you don't want to - just treat him as someone you have to get along with for a couple more months. I would ask him to do more of the chores but if you'd prefer to keep the peace, fine - as long as it's not an unmanageable burden for you. Then leave - or kick him out, whichever - when you're able to
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