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Hi, I know this is a bit weird to talk about this topic, on here. But I’ve went everywhere else & still have no clue, so I’m an Enfp, & my longest friend has been an Intp. Okay so lately we got into a discussion of ending the whole thing, because it felt that my intp friend wasn’t giving the 100% of effort or commitment in the friendship, it just felt as if she didn’t really care. I’ve been feeling this for a long time through since September.. and I’ve been trying to see where her effort is going to, but I just can’t see it, & I constantly get sad about it, I’ve asked her and discussed this issue multiple times. I want to hear her side of the story, her struggles, everything, but I can’t since she doesn’t even know how to express it, she doesn’t know how to express her feelings or emotions. So how else would I be able to understand? I’ve been looking for the ‘key’ for so long, and I can’t seem to find it anywhere, she says she loves me, but she says that to others as well. So what am I to her? I’ve been with her since the start, & now it’s all crumbling apart. I feel left out in the cold, and I don’t feel valued, not as much as I valued her. I don’t see it, and I wish I could, but I need constant reassurance. I’m such a fool :(
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Bruh if person refuses to talk theres nothing you can do about it… at that point you either leave or accept them as they are
Replybut how else would I ever know? It feels as if I’m doing the constant work to keep it up a float. I just want some clarity to really know. I just wanna learn her perspective, just as she knows mine.
ReplyI’m an INFJ/ENFJ 50/50. You will just have to ask her ‘what am I to you?’ just as you said.
ReplyThe INTP has got extraverted feeling in their fourth slot and that's an inferior function, which means they don't like to go there. Extraverted feeling is about caring abut the Tribe, i.e. other people. That's why you don't get the responses you desire.
ReplyINTPs don't have extraverted thinking, so expressing in words and actions is going to be difficult for them.
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