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I have a boyfriend whos so loving and caring towards me but im jelouse of his ex the first time we started dating i Saw he had pictures of his ex in his phone but they havent been with each other for a while but still yk maybe he forgot or something but honestly it Made me feel insecur she had more boobs then me and she looked absoulutly perfect and he was touching her any everything yeah i told him and he deleted them imediatly but still ever since that day i can't forget it Even though he touches my body and tells me i'm beautiful and that i'm perfect to him and he respects it i feel so ulgy and it's just tough because i can't just let it go i try but i always think of how perfect his ex was and i'm something lower and not as beautiful as her i need help i don't know what to do but honestly it breaks me and i feel so worthless cause his ex was so much better
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Hey he chose YOU. So don't let that inner voice tear you down. She failed, for whatever reasons, and he chooses to be with you. Sounds like he's confident in that decision too. So just by being yourself, you won :)
ReplyIt's natural to have that nagging voice in your head, the saboteur so don't be hard on yourself for that.
You are the person he is with now, before you saw those pictures did you have a cause to doubt your relationship?
Everyone has a past, an ex or numerous exes and I can understand that him still having pictures of her would hurt, feel like a kind of betrayal and I can understand why you are measuring yourself against her but ultimately it will only serve to add toxicity to your relationship and honestly relationships are hard enough without adding extra burden onto them.
Feel angry, hurt, and sad about it but don't dwell on it.
He is with you for a reason, maybe you don't have books like she did but maybe he thinks you have an amazing butt, a beautiful smile and an amazing heart, maybe he likes being with you because of how you make him feel about himself.
ReplyBoobs not books...auto correct!
ReplyYeah…I have boobs and never thought or told that I was pretty…Cute at best. I would never call myself anything more. And I had a breast augmentation. 🙄 at least you have someone that wants you.
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