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Can anyone pls tell me whats bare minimum in relationship? I'm quite young, 18, and inexperienced and it's my first relationship
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Well if you really cant see a future with them then break it off. You shouldn't waste your or anyone else's time. Then after you break it off with them, find yourself. Figure out what you want. The point of anyone besides friendship is finding someone you always wanna have sex with that matches your mentality about what you want in life. (Etc family, or just companionship) it's really hard to figure out what exactly you want but never lead on someone you dont desire.
ReplyOof…. The minimum of relationship is a lot.
You gotta respect differences- if not find compromise. Gotta remember partner’s opinion is equally valued as your own. If someone one wants something or complain about something you should listen carefully. When there is a problem- discuss. Dont wait for it to be gone on its own. When you are salty- you gotta have discussion. Instead of bringing down your partner (i.e this is toxic!!)- try to understand them and give better cared for response (i.e I know you are struggling with x, but by doing y instead of z, it makes me feel better about the situation)
ReplyThe bare minimum varies for each person based on their comfort level. Emotionally, I think you have to make sure you're present and open to sharing things about yourself as well as having an interest in their life and their problems. Physically, I think you can move slow if you're inexperienced. Try things out as you feel more comfortable with physical contact. There is never a need to rush these things, and your significant other should respect that.
ReplyWhy do you want the bare minimum of a relationship? It’s odd like you are forcing yourself or being forced to have a relationship with someone by someone else or something else, when you really don’t want to.
Replyas with anything, that advantages gets over the disadvantages. So first of all not abusive, aggressive person.
ReplyCOMMUNICATION- you need to talk with your partner to find out things. If they or you ever need to talk, they will listen. HONESTY- honesty is best. Always tell your partner the truth.
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