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feeling not as pretty
1 year ago · 0
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I think I have developed my self-esteem these past few years to accept my looks, but sometimes when I'm with a specific group of friends, I am very aware that they are prettier and I feel like the ugly duckling in the group -- just from the multiple experiences I've had with them and them always getting attention from guys.
I know that outer appearance is just the surface and it's not like anyone has ever actually suggested it or pointed out that i'm not as pretty as my friends. It just seems like people are always commenting to me that they are pretty. I know it's a personal and mental thing, but my insecurity has been bothering me lately. It's something I just have to accept and not care about. But it's always hard to force myself to stop thinking this way and reaffirm that I'm fine the way I am. I think partly is because I used to seek validation from others so that habit and insecurity are still in there even if it is smaller and not as severe as before. i'll keep working on it though.
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