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Would you share your love story with me? I't might take my mind of things and give me hope :)
1 year ago · 4 · Love, +6
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I try not to lose hope but when I think about a guy liking me it seems otherworldly and impossible. No guy has ever liked me. I just have reached a point where it's been so long like I don't even know what to do. What would I even do with myself if someone liked me? My friends come to me for relationship advice and I always help but it makes me feel so lonely like what's wrong with me? I just want to be loved it sounds so nice and I wish I could enjoy it. But it's been 18 years and nobody has ever looked at me. I try to make my friendships and hobbies and helping other people enough for myself but some days like today I wonder if it will ever happen to me? I wonder what I'd be like in love. Like would I be happier and more productive would I feel comfortable with him? Would he listen and really care what I have to say? What's it like to kiss someone? Idc I'm just lonely lol. Someday It's got to happen. I just need to wait some more.
I really want to know how you met your boyfriends and girlfriends? It might give me some hope. If you have the time please share your love story with me. I would really appreciate it!
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I'm not in a relationship right now but as a fellow single girl for already 22 years I really felt what you wrote...since you see so many people that have a relationship you're just asking yourself "when is it my turn to be loved?". Falling in love with someone or having a crush is easy, but the feelings being both sided is really hard nowadays because I feel like no one is really honest about what they feel anymore due to the fear of being rejected or breaking a friendship or whatever the situation may be.
After seeing many relationships working out and people breaking up in the most cruel way, I really ask myself sometimes if love even exists or if it is even possible for me...BUT there are so many different kinds of love that I think no one should loose hope, everyone is worthy of being loved and give love to other people, rejection is just a part of it and when the time comes, the most random person will come into your life and will show you what it really feels like.
ReplyI feel for you. Things are so messed up these days, with covid and social media, I wonder how anyone meets anyone in real life. Everything seems to be online which is kinda creepy because you're not meeting the real person, you're just seeing what they want you to see. Can love come from false pretenses like that?
Anyway I have a love story that's kinda cute, even though it didn't work out in the end. I'm a guy, and I was really sad because my dog died. So I went to an animal shelter just so I could play with dogs. Ended up becoming a volunteer that day. And I met a girl who was also a volunteer. And we had an instant connection, walking dogs together lol. Our first kiss was in the rain, ducking under a tree. It was really sweet & perfect.
It didn't work out for other reasons. But the beginning was magical, I'll always remember that. Anyway I guess my point is, meeting people irl, doing something that you both feel strongly about, that creates an instant connection. So whatever you enjoy doing, find some group or organization that does it and become a part of that. You'll meet people with similar interests and that's always a great starting point.
Replythis is relatable no one's ever liked me either lol. just focus on other things. when u stop desiring something to happen you will feel much happier when u get it than if you try really hard, get it, and then the excitement of working for it wears off. try seeing how happy you can be without a person, because everyone should be happy with themselves first and foremost. you're right, someday it has to happen, but please please don't compare yourself to the people around you. waiting for the right person is so much better than being with the wrong people.
ReplyI'm not in the kind of romantic relationship as you told. But a relationship which much more than that. He's my best friend. I was always an introvert and am dealing with anxiety problems. I've always felt it hard to talk to people and open up about me to them. I lost my dad when I was 10 and that had a major impact on my introversion. So when I was in my first year of high school, I joined a new school, there was this guy who used to follow me when I was cycling from school to home. I pretended that I didn't know he was following. Well, a month later they started online classes due to covid and he was again there in my class in the second year of my high school. We had a class group and joined it. He DMed me asked who I was, for a fact he was extremely extroverted and talked to every person he met. So I said who I was, and he pretended that he didn't know me and eventually blurted out everything after we spoke of a couple of months. I've never had any friends and he made me feel special. He told me that he followed me and he had a crush on me. He told about his trauma that he had in his childhood because of a girl. So he would never be in a relationship. He told me that I was his first crush. He told me that he wants to be friends with me no matter what and he still finds me beautiful. He also told me that if he ever were to fall in love with me I should never leave him and be his friend again.
I love him and that is platonically. I've never felt this safe before. The hugs he gives me give the warmth that my father gave me. He really cares about me. He so protective over me. He gives me everything I need. He makes me feel special. He gives me hope that I have still have a life to live. This is more than enough for me. I think being in a romantic relationship is overrated and it is exhausting. We'll always be in the constant fear of losing. But in the friendship I've never felt that and I like to be in this way. I'm content with the way my life is now.
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