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I am beginning to feel unloved by my boyfriend, we’ve been together for almost a year and everything was great until a few months ago. We’ve been arguing a bit more and my feelings seem to be getting hurt more than usual. I don’t know if I am being overly sensitive because I’ve been told in the past that I am overly sensitive ( by other boyfriends). I just don’t know what to do we talk about it but I just end up saying forget it or it’s fine because I don’t feel like talking about it anymore. Sometimes I feel like that he’s getting use to having me so isn’t being as concerned and considerate as he was in the beginning. Idk maybe I’m just over reacting.
-the overly sensitive gf
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Are you being over sensitive? It's possible but it's just as possible that you're not. Your feelings are your feelings and they are valid regardless of whether or not someone else thinks you are overreacting. Perhaps he isn't make as much effort as he did in the beginning, people can become complacent in a relationship but the only thing you can do is communicate with each other, if you can't communicate then the relationship has problems.
Never ever let another person make you feel like what you are feeling isn't valid.
ReplyUntil you are married and have a family, relationships are more like fun and games. So, when they stop being fun, it might be time to step back and give each other some space to see if the space helps bring the 2 of you closer OR the space helps the 2 of you move on, while you still have nothing to lose. In the meantime, stay focused on your short term goals; they'll pay off later. Best of luck.
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