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It's been couple month, I can't eat and sleep well. That's because I am going through breaking up with my 4 month relationship.
We have been through a lot, which made me believe that we could be together for a long period. However, we broke up just right the next day we came back from our trip.
I was frustrated and scared, I beg him to think about us and all those good things happened during these four months. But he never even listened or looked at me.
It just like we are strangers, he was so cold, not like the person I knew.
I was desperately looking for the answer why he ended our relationship, but I would never know, because the answer is him. I don't know him.
We saw each other few times after we broke up , I couldn't help myself calling and texting him, he never answered or replied even though he said we could still be friends. But we both know that is impossible.
The more I see him, the more hurt I get. I wanted him so badly. I don't know even understand why. He wanted me go on with my life. but How could I? how could I go on with my life without him? how could I move on easily? he can do it perfectly. Just like I never appeared in his life, like a random girl showed up for short time and left.
My heart is broken, I can't fix it anymore, I looked through the texts, videos and photos. All the good things reminded me of how we used to be, I am living in the past, it makes me sick. I want to get out of my past, and enjoy and apricated what I have in my life. But look around, I am along, only myself in this world with full of lies.
We are no longer in the same world. The worst part is not lost you, is lost myself in here.
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Hello,
I have been where you are time and time again, I know the situations aren't exactly the same, but I understand.
Firstly there are some times in life where you won't always get the answers you want and sometimes there won't be any answers at all unfortunitley, I have learnt that the hard way.
What I found helped me was finding an outlet for myself and putting my heart into that. Something you may have wanted to do for a while but never got around to or something your a little scared to do...just go for it. The things in life we want to do but don't are the ones we regret after. Its better to try than wonder "what if?".
Remember to take care of yourself too, as hard as it may be to eat or sleep right now.
And remember that when it's dark look for stars, when it rains look for rainbows. As sad as you feel there is always some light in the world somewhere to bring you out of the dark x
ReplyI also has a break up after 5 years of relationship and it has already been 5 months, still I am recovering. I know it's difficult but it's not impossible. Start self love and self care. If possible, connect to your friends, talk to them and go out. Exercise. Read novels or watch videos. Don't go through your texts and pictures again because they will only hurt you for now. Leave your past. Live in present. Accept the fact that you aren't together and go along. To move on, you do not need to jump into other relationship. Be independent. Focus on yourself and your career. You deserve better and you deserve happiness. Take care.
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