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She was the only thing i loved and cared about but I am just getting a cold treatment from her.. I so sick and tired of faking a smile, All i want to do is kill myself.
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ReplyYou can tell her
ReplyIf you have the chance, I encourage you to share with her your feelings. You shouldn’t hide your true feelings and you shouldn’t fake them aswell, because you’re only hurting yourself. If she’s still acting cold, start to distant yourself slowly and give each other space and time. And focus on your emotions. On your life. I want you to know that you are very loved and valued by someone. Some of them you wouldn’t even know who, but THERE IS someone out there who cares for you. Who will care, value, love, respect or inspire you. There are 7 billion people in this earth, you haven’t met the others yet. I’m only a stranger but I totally am cheering for you! We got this, and I know it’s a hard time, but we’ll get through this. Your season will come soon, where you’ll shine, bloom and finally find your peace and energy back. Keep learning to the best of your ability, like from your mistakes, write them down, maybe read books, watch movies/shows, dance and more! If you currently don’t have the energy for all that yet and or overwhelmed, then start with something easy. Like waking up in the morning, and drinking some water first things first. And then if you feel like you can add another one, wake up >> drink water >> get up and wash your face with water and then you can start your day from that. You don’t have to be productive for a whole day all the time. Take a break whenever you need to. Let out all of your emotions if you need to, and I encourage you to listen to some christian piano music or other calming piano music and relax your body, mind, and soul. Fightingg!!
ReplyHey, I encourage you to open up your feelings to her. If she’s still giving you cold treatments, It’s much better if you give each other time and space to think. If you’re in a relationship with her, make sure you communicate your wants, and concerns and try to resolve them together. Make sure you listen to hers aswell. If you guys are just friends or dating, maybe it’s a sign for you to back off a little and inspect your emotions. Please do not fake your feelings, because they will never know your true feelings and you’re only going to hurt yourself. You are very loved, valued, and cared for by someone. You just haven’t met them yet. :)
There are 7 billions of people on this earth, you’ll meet the right ones if you stay focus on yourself and goals. Write your thoughts down. Or maybe write the lessons you’ve learned in life that you’ll want to look back to again one day. Read books, any books! Explore categories, explore your hobbies and try new things may it be small or big.
However, if you think at the moment you think you don’t have the energy for these yet, you can start small. Baby steps. Like wake up in the morning, drink some water. Once you start to feel a little better, keep doing it until you’re ready to add another one. Like for the next days, wake up >> drink water >> wash your face with water only (if you can, do your routine for your hygiene). You can start with these.
You don’t have to be productive all the time for a whole day. Small things matter too. :) It’ll get better, once you’ve let go and once you’ve met new people. Right now, take a step back and just breathe. Calm your emotions down, and think about what you think is best for you in regards to the situation you are in.
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