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Do you guys think covering your mouth while laughing is girly ? Well two of classmates think . I always cover up when I'm laughing . Is being girly bad ? They asked me to stop it . Just imagine when I'm having a happy moment and laughing at the present , I'm supposed to think I can't laugh like that . I thought she would support me but instead she stood by our classmates . That made feel like shit . I got furious and I stopped talking . She said she won't support me because she thought my laughing was girly . What's wrong with girly ? I mean they are the one who is obsessed ( including my friend ) loves talking about makeup and guys . I'm not even interested in such topics . Why do everyone romanticize being tomboy ? Is there something wrong with my laughter ? People are making me feel like shit . I wish I had my old friends in my class ( I got promoted to another class so I had to hang out with my ex friend , my old friends got into different classes ). Me and my ex friend are opposite and opposites don't attract . Certain times , she makes me feel unworthy. Now I'm insecure about my laughter . I talked this with my old friends and they supported me . I wanted that from my friend . I wanted her to defend me and be on my side . I mean I shouldn't have expected that . Not all people are like my rest of my friends . I really shouldn't have expected her to support me . AHHHHH !! I shouldn't laugh anymore .
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People are dumb sometimes. I don’t know if covering your mouth is particularly girly, but even if it is, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that. There’s this frustrating issue where if women and girls are “too girly”, they’re accused of trying too hard to conform and seeking male attention. When they’re not girly enough, they get accused of trying too hard to be quirky…and also seeking male attention. But the people who say that aren’t worth listening to (and most likely have cabbage for brains). You’re fine, no matter how feminine or not you choose to present.
ReplyPeople tell young girls that they can't be girly if they want to be strong but that's really stupid. These people will be miserable as adults because they've rejected one of the most wonderful parts of themselves. Don't worry about them. Laugh how you want, there's nothing wrong with femininity or womanhood and it won't do you any good to break away from all that. Stick to who you are and then even if they turn away from you, you'll be able to be proud of yourself for being who you are.
Also the only reason they'd insult you is to take attention away from themselves because they're insecure
ReplyHonestly you shouldn't care at all you laugh the way you want and if they don't like it it's their problem.. like it's literally childish to call out someone for how they laugh... you know something when you are in school and it'll happen many times even when you pass out people around you would try to make you feel disregard or lowly about how you are like they will pin point anything about you and will try to make themselves feel superior by doing so and most of the times where it's people in group just like your classmates they don't even think before agreeing to someone because if they said something opposite to what the whole flow is going towards they think it'll make them look different or simply bad that they don't have the same opinions with their group so they'll simply just follow what others saying without even thinking what impact those words might create in someone else's life .. like here you are overthinking about what they told you and trust me they would have by now even forgotten about it ... So just Don care about them it's their issue that they Don't like it or simply they had nothing to do so they targeted you , there is nothing wrong with how you laugh . Like literally how can one even say that there is something wrong with so Natural thong such as laugh , noone should be told to how they should be laughing, So Don't worry about it you are totally normal and there is nothing wrong with being yourself whether you are girly , tomboyish or even a damn potato .
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ReplySomething like a laugh is messed up for somebody to criticize you over. Its your laugh. Who cares what they think. Stay with your real friends. Your friends will love you for you.
ReplyGirl keep doing what you normally do, nothing is wrong with covering your mouth while laughing; it is totally fine. what I think you should do is change your friend/friends, if they don't support you then they don't deserve to be your friends nor be in your life at all.
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