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I’m a girl and I’m 14 years old.
I needed something or someone to tell about how I been feeling since I don’t really have anyone, matter of fact I don’t have any friends. I’m sitting in my room all day, in this summer vacation where I see people through snap stories hanging out and having a lot of fun. It made me feel alone. I’m trying to connect with my parents by giving them my affection but they don’t really comfort me the same way back. It made me feel empty. Knowing that everyone’s snap score gets higher up while I’m her making fake account and sending snaps to the fake account so that my snap score higher up. That way everyone can think that I do have other friends. It makes me feel desperate in a bad way.
Seriously what am I doing? I’m feeling depressed, I cry in my room alot. What makes it even worse is that my parents argue all the time at night and I just feel like I have this weight I can’t let go off. I just need someone I can trust and will be there for me.
Thank you
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Hey I'm really sorry that you're going through this. It really sucks when you're isolated, even worse when everyone can see it on stuff like snap. I also make fake accounts to like my own posts and stuff because it's pathetic to have that 0. Anyway yea I guess we're supposed to find some hobby or activity to keep us busy, but that's not the same as having human connections is it?
ReplyYou're so much more than a snap score. You're so much better than wonderful. Know that you're parents don't seem to know what you need. And that isn't your fault. And it isn't theirs either. Maybe you could do more be trying to communicate your needs to them. But if they don't or can't change, then you have my sympathy. Parents who don't or can't change often leave us with the impression that our needs are too demanding to ever be met by another. But that is a lie. A trick of a little devil in the mind named Fear.
You see, I had parents who didn't, and maybe even couldn't change. And that hurt me alot. And it took so much inner strength, and effort, and refusing to give up. But I did eventually get over many of my issues. I'm an adult now. And honestly it's still a struggle. But then again, when I was your age, I didn't think I would even live to see adulthood.
And after all this time and all this fighting, self-therapy, and trial-and-error, the biggest lesson I've had to learn is that since my parents didn't/couldn't accept, encourage, or support. I should have been learning to accept, encourage, and support myself this whole time.
I should have really been there with myself, loving, and listening to, and reassuring myself even as I cried in my room. I should have been my own best friend. But I wasn't. I used to tear myself down just like my parents and the bullies would. And being older now. I really regret that.
I might have something like a normal life now, if I had only had the idea to be kinder to myself and to really mean it. It honestly looks like that tiny change could have saved me years of struggling and pain.
So please, for the sake of those of us who learned too late, be kinder to yourself now. And give yourself a better future by doing so.
Replygirl just shutdown this snap thing that is making you feel so bad about yourself. I m 22 and trust me you will have your share of fun and joy. Rather work on yourself on the days you are not having those things. That is joy of its own
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