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My dad was an alcoholic for about 14 or 15 years of my life. He has always said that he loved me and would always protect and take care of me. He was a verbally mean and a physically intimidating drunk, but, just want to be clear, he NEVER hurt me or my mother physically. He abused us plenty mentally though. He doesn’t even remember all the things he has said over the years that has ruined me mentally. He blames all of my problems on my mother, who basically gave up her life of freedom and happiness just to be tied down by him. Now that he’s stopped drinking he’s a really great and nice guy, but now if my mother disagrees with him on something he threatens to start drinking again. My mother said she will leave him if he starts drinking again. He said just today that “I never hurt nobody”. He doesn’t remember all those years of putting us though sh*t because he was in his ignorant drunk stupor! I want to tell him everything he’s done over the years, but I don’t know if he’d even believe me. There are more ways to hurt someone than just physically.
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You can write down on paper all of the things he did and give it to him.
ReplyI would, but the Stockholm syndrome side of me wants to protect him from knowing things he’s said or done.
ReplyYou should tell him. You should tell him so he realizes that's words hurt just as much if not more.
You don't have a problem, he does.
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