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i was broken up with almost ten months ago and i am still so angry about it. i dont understand why i cant let go of my anger. I mean i still feel pain when i think about it and i still cry but god the rage is just exhausting. he did a lot of things that rlly hurt me and then went on with his life like nothing happened. i mean completely nonchalant. like how could he do those things and feel nothing? and i know it isnt the proper word but it feels like ive been traumatized. im having such a hard time with everything cause i just cant seem to move on. i am a teenager so i know its dramatic but its just too much. i get depressed so easily and i flinch everytime i hear his name. i just want advice from ppl who have experienced heartbreak who can help me with tips or something :(
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Bad karma will get him so let go of your anger and let the karma do its job.
ReplyI don’t know if this will help you but it works for me…
People like him are narcissistic and have more insecurities then either of us can understand. He has and will continue to have his own struggles in his own way. He doesn’t need closure because he wasn’t committed. He may or may not ever need it. If he doesn’t then you have confirmed he was a waste of time ( that is how you need to feel starting yesterday). If one day he seeks you out for “that talk” then you win there too and now the ball is in your court. You have to know that every person has, is or will go through a broken heart and so many feel like fools for being so distraught over some one that didn’t earn, little less deserve your time and energy.
“Sorry” is meant for true accidents and unknowing mistakes. “Sorry” is not a blanket or a crutch people get to use when they are busted, caught or just trying not to hear you out and trying to get passed an issue they don’t want to discuss.
I love like no other and I end up being taken for granted and walked all over at times or it may seem to most people that way. I am 1000000% loyal no matter my relationship (family, friend, partner) but I will allow someone to hang themselves with their own rope. They can be who they and if they are great then great! If not, they will eventually burn their bridge with me and I will write them off. Know who you are, what you want and what you’re willing to put up with and don’t settle for anything less.
Heart break is the only pain that can scar so deep, and as a mother, a wound I can’t treat or heal. But for my kids I hope the anger and sadness that comes with any distance, fight or loss.. it’s an opportunity to find another part of themselves. If you grow from this and make this ok for you, not bottle it up or ignore it but make it a lesson or a blessing… you will be a stronger person because of it.
ReplyThat's some amazing stuff I have read in weeks. Thanks for helping her out
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ReplyIt's okay to feel angry we all heal differently if you haven't told someone about I would say tell someone.
ReplyIt's been 3 years since I had mine. Still not completely moved on. I don't know about her, Or maybe I don't wanna know that she moved on. It's complex. But im there with you. You will get someone worthy to be with you. Just be patient. Good luck
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