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I'm a sl*t. Literally. I also send my n*des for free to random people online. I don't get h*rny because I'm asexual, but I just do it for fun. Then people who find out call me a sl*t and leave me/shame me. I don't understand why society uses words like sl*t, whore etc as bad words. I'm 19 btw. I'm an adult so I can do whatever I want. Why do people hate sl*ts? Serious question. I'm not even harming others and I don't share things with minors or with adults without their consent.
I censored these words so that my vent doesn't get autodeleted.
Two of my friends left me today after they found this out.
Then I got a panic attack and started crying.
I don't understand what's so wrong with this?
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Ok. I’ll tell you straight why sl*t is a bad word. Firstly, we’re supposed to have evolved beyond the point where women are supposed to feel ashamed of their sexuality. It literally was a word for a prostitute, and nowadays, sex work is gaining legitimacy as a valid life choice for women which should no longer be a source of shame. This attitude is regarded as dated and misogynistic. BUT. Clearly people still have ingrained attitudes about women exposing themselves or being promiscuous, or they would not shame them or be disparaging in this way. Basically, it’s a free world, but it’s a free market capitalist world where you can sell pictures of your tits. Personally, I wouldn’t do it. I have judgements about it simply because I think we still live in a man’s world and a woman protects herself by not flaunting that sort of thing and being subject to shame. But each to their own.
ReplyIt's about having self-respect for yourself, which you don't have so therefore you're referred to as those words.
ReplyReally? How often is a man called a slut? Women who flash their t*ts might respect themselves. It’s just that others don’t.
ReplyI always argue and fight with people....doesn't that mean I have self-respect?
Will people bully and leave others if they find out they don't have self-respect?
ReplySlut, slag, whore etc., are used against us because we’re open and free.
Our pasts are often used against us too…pay no attention to people who call you this, man or woman.
Don’t cry over what other people call you but do try to keep yourself safe.
If you feel like you’re panicking…picture someone that you love standing right next to you, their spirit, and breathe deep.
Keep smiling :):)
Replyi literally don't care what people do with their lives. just be careful!
ReplyBecause you should only share your whole body with a lover/partner. When you send it to random people they show all their friends. I know if I was skinny and all that I wouldn't be sharing it with just anyone. Esp if my face was in the pic.
ReplyWhat if you don’t have a lover/partner to share that with? What does it matter if you share photos with people you’ve never met or plan to meet?
Where I live, it is against the law to share private photos with anyone. I actually have a very large lawsuit going that has an ex and ALL of his friends involved. (It’s amazing what attorneys can pull from web archives and phone records) I will never have to work another day in my life when it is over.
ReplyI think people think a sl*t or who're can be a homewrecker. That's your business if you sleep around. Your sex life is your own. Just don't hide anything from anyone if you get a std. Not saying I condone it but I wouldn't quit being your friend just for that. I'm sorry that happened xx
Replyi'd say that this is the right answer. it's just how the patriarchy protects its social order. mortals have turned sexuality and various kinds of interactions into a form of currency, into assets, so now they would see you as a thief. there is pretty much everything wrong about acting the way that people are acting towards you, and this will keep making you learn how messed up is the world that you're living in. if you wan't to keep living like this, you have to learn how to make better choices when it comes to making friends, because you might end up attracting some miserable, messed up people that you would be better off staying away from. also, you might want to add the word "polyamory" to your vocabulary.
ReplyWhat is fun about it?
Would it be fun to send pictures of your knee about?
...Probably not.
It's because you probably know it's not a great thing to be doing, it can be empowering to be able to make your own bad decisions.
Do you think you'd ever regret this?
People tell women it's empowerment to do this kinda thing but it does have lasting effects on you.
ReplyDon’t let those people define who you are. You are better off without them. Just be you, f*** everyone else.
ReplyIt’s funny, men can walk around without a shirt and it’s totally fine. But if a woman does it she is a sl*t, who*e, or whatever else some disgusting jealous human wants to call you.
Those people were never your friends to begin with. I would stay far, far away from them.
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