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My problem is that I'm too nice to people, I always try to make people happy and being loved and has me always by their side, I always Help them even if They don't ask for it, I talk to them nicely Because I don't want them to feel hurt or something .
All in all, I always Think of people's feelings . Maybe This is a Trauma response . I have encountered many people who treated me so badly and hurted me a lot. So, I don't want others to be That "broken ME".
But, Unfortunatly, No matter how much considerate Am I to others' feelings, No one is. Everyday, I get hurt by others's words and actions.
Why can't people Just be nice? It takes nothing NOTHING to be nice. They can ruin someone's day , someone's self esteem, someone's last hope to be Happy again..
They can make someone cry all day Just because They don't watch out their mouth or actions towards others .
Well, To the manager who made me feel sad today because of stupid mistake I made.. I hope you rot in hell. I will never look at your eyes and will never smile at you ever again . You made me feel miserable for the whole day. I had so much respect for you But not anymore .
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Im like you. I wish people were more kind as well. Sorry that happened hope your day gets better :)
ReplyStop being so nice to people. They don't appreciate it.
ReplyYour post got me thinking...Have you done the Mayers- Briggs personality test? I'm feeling you might be an INFJ which would explain a lot. To tell you the truth- I feel the same way - my boss pissed me out this morning. I had so much respect for him and he ruined that when he showed me how he really treated his employees today, when an opportunity presented.
I'm never looking at him with the same eyes again. Those kinds of situations are really beneficial, because you can really see the real person behind but I promise you, not everybody is like this. I have numerous people who I intentionally put through such kinds of tests, to try their goodness, when an opportunity presented and they didn't disappoint me. That's when you know who's decent to stay in your life.
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