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I'm a 23 year old male. I have been friends in my university with a girl for the past 3 years. I never felt that I was in love with her.
But after 3 years I had a fight with her and for 6 months we didn't talk at all. Those 6 months were one of the most difficult times of my life.
When we reconciled I realized how much she meant to me. She was talking to a guy who resides abroad and that guy had a crush on her.
I was waiting to tell her my feelings. But decided not to due to the fear of being rejected and losing the one close friend I have.
Yesterday night she told me she is officially dating that guy and I said I was happy for her. But my soul was crushed instantly. I won't say I'm depressed or heart broken or anything but I'm feeling extremely uneasy. My symptoms are mimicking a panic attack.
Now what crushes me the most is she is one of my closest friends. In order for me to move on I need to maintain a distance without her understanding why I'm distancing my self. No more unnecessary texts, late night calls. I need to stop doing that in order to cope with what happened to me.
Can someone kindly give me advice on what I can do to come out of this situation. Cutting ties with her would be selfish. I don't want to do that but I also can't do what I have been doing.
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I'm a girl But my advice for you is letting her go . You are the one who will keep suffering and will be ruined in the future if You don't cut contact with her as soon as possible .
The more you talk to her , the more you will feel more attached to her . And let me tell you something, Maybe you misjudged your own feelings ( It happens and It happened to me mant times ) , You may not love her , Maybe you are just so familiar to her presence in your life considering the lifespam of your friendship with her . And Believe it or not ,
Replyif you see a close friend being taken away from you, You will feel kind of jealous/wanting her more because she will no longer have time for you .
Anyway, Whatever the reason , Forget about her . Send her a message , tell her the truth , Don't be arrogant and make her question your departure for the rest of her life . Leave But make it clear for her . And don't be fool yourself if she convince you that you and her can be friends , You CAN'T .
I advised you based on my own experiences . Now , It is up to you.
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