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what do you do when what you planned to happen, didnt happened. When things didn't do your way. I am so hurt. Disaplointed. And my Head aches a lot. help me.
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Make changes in your plan, you’re enough , it’s not because of you. Look at that like a lesson
ReplyThings will go that way, from time to time. Even if now it seems hard and unbearable, you have to let go of all the things that hurt you and make other plans. Maybe not now, but take a step back, breathe, and think that you are the one in chargenof your life.
If things went bad, maybe it was your fault, maybe not, it doesn’t matter anymore. All that matters is you learn from it and move on. It’s hard. But we’ve all( all of us here, obviously:)) been there.
ReplyI've read some wise advice on Quora, and I think you could benefit from it too:
"... In times of misfortune and when we are feeling helpless, we should act like when we are in the sea, near a shore covered with rocks. We want to get to the land, but the waves are big and the shore has dangerous rocks. If we just swim to the shore, the waves will crush us to the rocks. Instead, we should let the waves, with their back and forth motion, bring us close to the rocks. At the right time, when we are able to reach the rocks, we should grab them. But we should not be hasty. We should not want to grab the rocks prematurely. We should wait for the right time, when our position is exactly right. So, hang in there. If there is nothing you can do, let the waves (life) guide you to the shore (a favorable situation)."
- Dimitrios Kalemis
In other words, things in life may never go our way, but we need to learn how to pivot toward circumstances that can turn out in our favor in due time. I hope that this helps.
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