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I've gotten to a point where I'm insecure about my body. I'm a male, but I have a goal that is different, and something a lot of people might find weird or something. Idk.
Just to be honest, I'm working to slim my stomach and waist, and increase my thigh and butt. Not the usual muscular 'manly' workout, but I honestly don't care if it's out of norms.
At the sides, along my waist, it looks weird. It kind of sticks out like a muffin-top, and I don't like it. It makes my thighs and butt look shrunk. I know it's a workout goal mainly for women, it's just what I want to achieve too. Not to impress people, but to feel in myself more secure and comfortable with my body.
I've watched workout videos in my bed (funny I know), but I just wonder why I'm so determined to go outside gender norms. I don't like being the ideal masculine man. I'm male of course, just not the usual. Just wondering if that's weird.
Thanks for the time, just needed to get that off my chest too.
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Hey man. My boyfriend feels a similar way about his body. But other people aren’t looking at your body w the same disdain. That’s now how people who love you see you. They see your smile and your sense of humor and your heart. I hope you achieve what you want as healthily and as safely as possible
ReplyIt’s not weird to want to be outside gender norms. I hope you find happiness
ReplyHey, it's okay to feel like this and want to get that body structure I too would like to get it so cheer up my guy you'll get there soon just continue to do you and keep your head up high.
Replyi don't think it's weird at all. i'm a female and i know many of my female friends who want a more masculine, muscular build. to be honest, i like a man with a bit more on the back. for example, captain america. he has a great ass, and he's definitely a guy a lot of my friends drool over.
ReplyI do that too, going out of the way to do something just because it defies gender norms! I'm female by the way.
Honestly, your workout is yours and solely yours. Do it however you like.
ReplyThe body is just a vessel. Quality of life should be one goal, which means staying living a lifestyle that gives you the greatest health benefits. Best of luck on all your goals.
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