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so i’m the classic case of “used to be super sweet pushover” that was treated badly for long enough that i set boundaries and stopped giving a fuck. which is good. but honestly, i’m getting meaner and more apathetic by the day. and the scariest part is that i kind of don’t care. i don’t feel the empathy that i used to feel so strongly. it’s just blank. i don’t like that.
and i’m so quick to anger. i’m so quick to push people away. i feel like i’m becoming the same person that treated me badly and that scares me so much. i have so many flaws. i don’t know if i can fix myself or if i even want to.
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ReplyI assume we change to protect ourselves from being hurt again. You should be careful you'll create a cold hard wall so high that you'll miss out on someone really great for you. You deserve to set boundaries but don't push out people that care.
ReplyI can relate. People suck. Not all but a lot. I used to be mocked for being too nice at work. I was raised do unto others as you'd have done to you. Ok so being kind having respect wasn't asking much. Not be shitty like them just because and expect good treatment no matter what like them for an example.
Don't let them change who you are those in your past. Be a good person the world truly needs more. Just sometimes you have to treat some people accordingly. I've encountered a few really really good people so they are out there. I have flaws too but I'm not changing who I am just because people are a holes.
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