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So, I did something really embarrassing.
I have Talked about my manager that I like here before.
So, When I was walking in the hallway of the company, I saw him coming from a little bit a far and We made eye contact. My dumb mind told me to keep looking.. And I did and He did. We kept looking at each other while walking without any facial expression or speaking . Just staring .
Honestly at that moment , My mind went blank and Just kept looking at him because I was in love.
And Then after looking at each other for too long , He smiled at me softly and I smiled back .
That was so Embarrassing OMG
I felt so shameless looking at the manager like that. Maybe He thought I m a weirdo
And I kept asking myself what the hell did happen ..
But On the other hand, I can't forget his stare . That moment was so unreal . It felt like we were drowning into each other's eyes . It was like a movie scene . It never happened to me before .
Im afraid that I looked at him with so much love and he noticed my feelings . This time , I made it obvious and I want to burry myself.
Tell me , What do you Think? He thinks Im a weird person ? He thinks I like him ?
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Isn’t he married or turned you down before? Don’t get caught up
ReplyYou're not in love. This deep infatuation is called Limerence. https://livingwithlimerence.com/what-is-limerence/ You're in love with the idea of this guy.
To prove that this is limerence, and not love, try this: Imagine this guy sitting on his toilet at home, with gastric flu. Grey-faced, sweating, trying not to puke. Imagine bringing him extra toilet rolls and lemsip while he releases his bowels uncontrollably. Imagine this has completely derailed your weekend plans to visit your mother. Does it shatter the romantic illusion?
It doesn't matter what he thinks about you, except as far as it relates to your work performance and suitability for the job.
You're over-thinking this one interaction in the corridor and feeding your obsession - you didn't break any professional norms, even if it seemed to you like an uncomfortable amount of eye contact. He just thinks you are his employee.
Treat this as a crush that will disappear over time, and never, ever, tell him about it.
ReplyPure infatuation. It's that simple unfortunately. Oh, the feelings are real, that's a fact. But the meaning behind those feelings is what's in question here.
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