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My mom has been trying to lose weight for about three months now and it’s really effecting me. Im 16 and I’ve have had multiple eating disorders but I’m not skinny so a lot of people don’t realize that I had them. I’m trying to accept myself and my body and come to terms with the fact that healthiness does not equate to skinniness. I’ve been doing really good lately and I feel healthier Than I’ve ever felt in years, despite weighing more than I have in the past. My mom has been saying lots of passive aggressive things to me now that she’s started to lose weight. I ate pasta after the gym once because I had a swim meet later that night and she kept insisting that I wasn’t taking care of my body enough and that I need to eat protein if I wanted to actually swim well. She’s always saying things like “I have to go do my walk now… you should come with me so you are actually moving around today.” When I come home from work with the free ice cream employees get she asks why I keep eating it after every shift when I only work 2 times a week. She keeps throwing away the food I buy for myself so it won’t tempt her even though I label it and she keeps talking about how I’ll probably be able to fit into her old clothes now even though I weigh about 100lbs less than she did when she wore them. I’m just so tired of feeling like I can’t recover on my own in my own house and it feels like every step I take she’s there to push me back. I’m trying to grow a healthy relationship with food where I’m not scared to eat it but when she talks about all of her restrictions and the things sje won’t allow herself to eat it makes me feel like I’m being greedy and piggy. I’ve mentioned a few times how uncomfortable it makes me but she says that I’m just not supporting her during her weight loss journey. I don’t know what to do at all
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Does she know about your eating disorders?
ReplyI’m so sorry bro. Maybe get a separate fridge for your room? Extremely rude of her to throw your stuff away that you paid for
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