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Unhappily married

1 year ago · 5 · Stress, +1


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I have never thought that I can be so unhappy with my husband. To be honest, I am afraid of him. I am also afraid that he will leave me and I will be alone forever. I feel tensed every day. I don't know why I cannot tell him anything what he does not want to hear. He says he loves me. But he hates my parents, my friends, my hobbies and interests, the way I think, walk, talk and so on. Why do I believe in his love? He manipulates me all the time. He wants me to do everything what only he wants. I hate him sometimes and I think that it would be great if he could just disappear. I don't know when I am ready to take a decision to divorce. I hate myself for wasting time. I just wanted to share my feelings. Please, do not judge me.

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  • SanaNCT · 1 year ago

    Why would anyone judge you ? You are a victim of a manipulative and narcissistic pervert. Diovorce him and save what can be saved . Don't waste your life being unhappily with someone . Im sorry but he does not love you . Believe me he does not hate because you don't deserve love , it is because you are better than him and he knows it. Leave and find a new path in your life . It may be hard at first but you will find guidance .

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    Why would you be alone forever? There's other people out there. Being alone is better than being afraid. Being afraid is being abused. You have a right to live without fear. You know what you have to do.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    There's no point in being in a relationship if you are not happy. Don't waste the best years of your life with him. You will regret it if you do.

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  • jamesdeans · 1 year ago

    He sounds like a disaster. However, consider working on yourself rather than focusing on him. This will still likely lead you to end this bad situation. You will not find love, peace, and happiness in another relationship. It is who / how you are when you become clear about your true nature. Check out youtube Rupert Spira. He has dozens of videos that can point you in this direction. Good luck.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    You say he manipulates you. Now that you realise that he does manipulate you, do not allow yourself to BE manipulated. Take control of the situation.

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