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Words are unsent, tears rolling up, unable to figure it out, maybe you are the one or not , dreams of creating new is barriered within me.
Messed up brain figuring to create braid out of it. Untieing to be beautiful but tangled barriers arrive within every ease of trying new
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ReplyI think "The One" is not a useful concept. Hanging all our hopes and dreams and fantasies onto one person, and expecting them to manifest that in total perfection forever and ever? It's not fair, and it's not realistic to put all of that onto another human being.
Let's assume this person is not The One:
Are they pleasant to spend time with? Do they treat you with respect and kindness? Are they available for a relationship, and mutually keen on having the kind of relationship you want to have with them?
If Yes to all of these, then just let it be A relationship - not THE relationship forever, just A relationship. See where it goes without pushing it towards a permanent commitment.
If No to any of those questions, then you have to accept that they are just not the right person to have a relationship with. You may grieve for what might have been, but you will certainly get over it in time.
I hope that one day you'll find someone who fills you with certainty, and gladness.
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