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Why does life have to be so damn hard. Why can’t I do what I want to do. I just want to be happy, why does everything try to stop me. Why am I not allowed to be happy. Why does the world always come crashing down on me when I get the slightest bit of hope. I have no right to complain… I have so much but at the same time it feels as thought I’m sinking deeper and deeper into the depths. I feel so far and alien. I don’t feel normal. I feel like something is missing, why am I so different. I just want to be happy. I want to be able to wake up and enjoy my life. Why does this hell repeat itself day and day. Why do my friends make me feel like a failure. Why does everyone’s eyes make me feel as though I’m hated. Why can’t I feel loved. Why can’t I feel love. I can feel pain and hatred so easily but why does love have to be so damn hard. Why can’t I just be… normal.
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ReplyNobody can make you feel like a failure or hated until you let it. You cannot be happy until you love yourself first
ReplyWell from what I gathered about life- we often face problem when we go against pre-existing system. It will be easier if you recognize the system and follow it or redirect it. For instance- humans often just say their opinions. This opinion is not about you but rather it is about themselves. You exist uniquely as you are. But when others see you- depending on what they know or used to- their opinion might be different than what you expect. It is more about them and them expressing their status of mind.
This is quite normal. The bad thing is- in these days people have obscenely high standard that is self centered around them. Therefore it is easier to hate or refuse to understand others because all they only care about what they think and believe. I am aware every humans wants to be loved and cared about others but imo, best efficient way to be, get loved is loving yourself.
This is thought I had long time ago.
“Reason why you have to save yourself/love yourself:
If you dont- you will push your responsibility to other person without yourself knowing.
And people in general hate responsibility so they will leave.
Honestly a lot of people want to be cared for and not other way around.
If you have ability to save yourself/love yourself- you will have the skill other people would need (be loved n cared for). I guess its kind of like career world. More competent you are(ability to be understanding, be caring, be patient no matter what, have ability to give up own desire for greater good, ability to give what other person need, lack of selfishness, able to accurately analyze the situation, etc.)- the higher chance of achieving long term relationship and at a point where people will actually love you and depend on you because you have become important to them.”
ReplyThe dance ( the joy ) of creation is all of God's creatures just experiencing each other and the surrounding things. For people, however, even enjoyment from our successes is short lived. Most of us spend a lot of our available time wanting to and trying to make our current situation different than it is.
I finally realize that preferred objects, states of mind, wealth, circumstances, substances, activities, and / or relationships do not come with lasting peace, love, and happiness attached. These feelings are not provided, achieved, earned, produced, or possessed. They are simply LIFE's expressions that radiate form my being and energize my actions when I stop resisting ITS flow.
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