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Afraid of being alone

5 months ago · 2 · Stress, +1


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I'm going to divorce soon (after 10 years of marriage). I am 32 now. I have not got kids and I have a big fear of being alone for all of my life. I don't know why I am so scared. I am scared to death. I know that it's better to be single than to have a marriage which I had. My husband was the only man in my life. I am not even sure that somebody is going to love me and that I also will love someone. I feel so sad and lonely. I had been lonely for all the years living with my husband. But now I feel even worse. This divorce is like the end of my life and I'm drowning. Please help with the advice.

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  • Novni Guest · 5 months ago

    Hey,

    Its going to be fine. you will live the happiest and most amazing life. you are not alone, you will find love if thats what you want, if not then you will find happiness in your own company. you will meet many amazing people in this life and some not so amazing, but you are the only one who can truly make yourself happy. I trust you and love you. please trust and love yourself. you are the strongest.

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  • Novni Guest · 5 months ago

    Hold your head high you’re gonna make it though this

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