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So a couple weeks ago (Like 3/4) I met this guy online and we began talking. He asked me for my number and I gave it to him. We've been talking almost everyday and have gotten along well together. I really like him he's funny and matches my energy. But yesterday night he asked me to be his gf. We're both the same age (around 15-16). But i dont know if it's too early or if it will work out since it's a long distance type thing. We both live in the same country though. He said only to say yes if I wanted to truly commit to it. I want to but I need some advice. My parents also won't accept it since they're strictish. So I'm planning on telling them I met him on a trip we went to recently. What should I do?
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Don't lie. You don't actually know this guy. You haven't been talking to him long. I would def want to know who exactly I was going to commit to. Long distance stuff never really works out. Ask him if he would move closer first before you commit yourself into anything. See how that conversation goes.
ReplyYouth begins the days of friendship especially if its a guy or gal depending : simply honesty is the best policy .. today one must be on guard for person asking of ones information - maybe how they asked - can I have your number ? and then after that - I want you as a GF - this worries me.. but you are smarter than this guy ; why you asked for advice your better self says ...( this is to much too soon !!!) I can not tell you how many youngster I met at the bus station at age 15 running away from home... because the guy says live with me...so many have contacted me with help ... I have seen them turn into slaves as older girls beat up younger girls ...they call me ..what do I do sir...?...my answer is find a safe place and contact your folks ...usually I get the city they have traveled to and find the church and pastor to go get them ... I am not one to say much but ...the girls that get to go home are thankful ..15 / 17 years old - be on guard always - build a relationship with Christ Jesus read and study how to be humble and live a good life helping others ..I pray you understand and don't continue with this guy .. your right to ask for advice ..its all I can give you.. the rest is up to you.
ReplyYou haven't known him long enough to commit so tell him you would rather be friends for now and keep it long distance. I have a bad feeling about him and I am psychic.
ReplyYou're young and you're not thinking all this through. You're probably looking for someone to love and love you. You should meet other people that live closer to you not someone long distance. You might think that doesn't seem possible but it is. Maybe this guy can be your penpal until you meet someone closer.
ReplyIf you are uneasy, it is probably your intuition setting in.
You shouldn't have to lie, especially to your family, about it. You should at least let somebody you trust know about it, that way you have somebody to guide you and keep you safe.
I hope this helps.
Replyhey, don't jump right into it if you're not ready. communicate it to him that you'd like to know him better before committing.
Replydon't do it.
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