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A few months a go, I toke admission in a university in a MS program. Although, I already have a MS degree, I just wanted to keep myslef busy, gain extra knowledge, gain a more professional degree and to keep myself away from negitive thoughts, as I came out of a very emotional situation recently. I was enjoying my time in University as I was able to connect better with my friends, make new ones and was doing pretty well too (got a perfect 4 by 4 at the end of my semester). During that time, I met a girl, I instantly started liking her, we connected pretty well, went out on a few dates and I was positive that I have developed feelings for her. And, I believe she too was interested. Suddenly, very recently she has asked about getting married to me. Owing to her situation at home and because of our countries culture she is required to marry soon (arranged by her parents) and is also required to make a decision very soon. She is not interested in the person and doesn't want to marry him instead she has asked me to marry her. I surely like her and want to marry her in the future but currently my financial situation and career is not at par to afford marrige. What should I do, I don't want to lose her like this, and I certainly don't want to say no either. I fear if she is okay to wait and I am still unable to marry her, I will turn out to be a villain an unfaithful and liar kind of a person, which I am not.
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I don't feel like this is a yes or no answer, to marry someone is a very big choice to make. You have to decide if you really love this woman, if you can honestly see the rest of your life with her. You will not be a villain or a liar for picking either or. Does she love you? Only do this is you feel in LOVE together. Think hard and don't make any rash choices. Good luck.
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