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why do men ignore clear signs of interest from a woman?

1 year ago · 9 · men, +3


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I'm not really complaining since I'm pretty much done with life and no longer wish to live, but I just need to hear from men.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    I can't speak for all but it depends on the situation. If I'm interested and I see them I won't ignore them. Some men have been played too much so they don't know what to expect. That's all I can guess.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    Because they say things like they don’t wanna live, because a man doesn’t want them

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    • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

      I'm sorry. I've always kept my depression to myself if it makes you feel better?

      I'm just tired of living... I've been through a lot and I don't feel I can carry on anymore.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    If you are interested just be direct and ask them out. You are causing headaches by expecting and assuming smh

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    • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

      I did... for a few different guys. I gave them all ways to contact me, but they rejected me. As for the ones I didn't reach out to... I got tired of being rejected and focused more on just working myself to death.

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  • pob · 1 year ago

    Some men(like me) are so insecure and can’t take a hint to save their life. Literally a woman said if you don’t stop I’m going to have to fuck you, I jumped off the bed. Talk about not taking a hint.

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  • FrozenMight · 1 year ago

    Because any male who is qualified to call himself a man knows that he cannot fully trust what is right in front of him. I'm not saying the signs are untrustworthy (even though sometimes they are); I'm saying he does not fully trust himself. Even if he notices these "signs of interest," there is a good chance that he is going to think to himself, "I must be imagining it; I am not worth this woman's time," or "I admit she is hot, but I should not let my dick do the thinking." But this is just on an individual level.

    On a societal level, most self-respecting young men are actually afraid to pursue a relationship with a young woman in today's world due to the implicit power women now hold in relationship struggles. Statistically speaking, if something goes wrong in a relationship between a man and a woman, outsiders are twice as likely to blame the man for the whole thing, even if the fault lies entirely with the woman. I can provide examples if you want to discuss this further.

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    • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

      I see you're a fan of the MRA talking points... and only think about having power over women and your image.

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  • Novni Guest · 1 year ago

    Because we, the men, don't understand the signs which you may think r obvouis. So pls be clear and direct when you like a men.

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