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for context, I am 14, my brother is 17. about a year ago we were playing around and suddenly he got really serious and held me onto him.. I thought nothing of it and jumped up and playfully smacked him. in March of this year, he told me I had nice boobs AT CHURCH. i got really scared and stopped really being around him much other than when needed but would always feel like I was being watched. I have only told one person; their name is Dylan (he's 17). well on Friday I had to go to a birthday party for a friend of mine and Dylan's, we all ended up swimming and Dylan told me my brother have been starring at my chest a good portion of the time. my bathing suite wasn't revealing in anyway it literally looks like a sports bra, him saying that made me very uncomfortable so I just stayed as far away as I could. about an hour passes and everyone was over by the fire (there was only 7 of us including myself) and Dylan was telling me how my brother had been staring at me like the whole time. I asked where he went, and he told me he probably went to take care of his pecker.. I looked at him confused and he told me my brother had a boner a good portion of the time and I should probably watch my back, so he doesn't do anything to me. I am very uncomfortable now and my brother haven't said anything to me since Friday just watched me. I don't know what to do anymore, I can't sleep or eat.
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Whoa..... That's awkward. I think you should tell your mom.
Replymy mom wont believe me if i say anything, she belives my brother is a perfect little angel and im just here to ruin his life (':
ReplyMaybe try to make him
Move out he’s 17
Don’t get into contact with him at all
It can get dangerous
Join some courses go out with friends
So that u don’t have to see him
Tell ur parents that he’s acting weird and that they should start to observe him more they are ur parents they should listen to u
He's not planning on moving out anytime soon, he haven't even had a job before, and he doesn't drive. I can't go anywhere without him because they think I'll be kidnapped. my parents don't believe anything I ever say since "I just want attention" I just want everyone to leave me alone already.
Replyuhmm the good suggestion from my side would be stay away from him, don't try to get contact with him and whenever your parents go outside try and bring your friends don't stay alone home n do also tell this to your parents, nd if ur parents are not believing try and tell ur teacher whose close to you
ReplySpeaking from experience here: The worst part about family sexual abuse is when your own family won't believe you. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. I think you should talk to a counselor or a trusted adult, obviously, but just to protect yourself, make sure you buy some pepper spray to keep on you at all times. You should make sure you have a lock on your door and don't wear bikinis around your brother. You shouldn't have to dress so modestly, but unfortunately, it may be the only thing that keeps you safe. Don't be afraid to make your brother feel uncomfortable. If you catch him looking at your chest or touching you, don't be afraid to call him out publicly and embarrass him. Don't compliment him in any way as that might lead him on. Stay away from him until you can get out of that house. Seek therapy if you can. It really helped me deal with this stuff.
Replythank you. this is really the best thing i have heard. I know I mentioned Dylan in my story and now that I'm telling him how I'm scared he is saying that I'm being unreasonable so that's fun. again, thank you so much, I'll make sure to get pepper spray asap.
ReplyMake sure to stay around friends and maybe tell a teacher, who could talk to your parents.
Replyrealising now that this was 8 months ago, hope your okay.
ReplyLOTS HAPPENED- cops showed up, parents didnt belive me so I got my phone taken (its literally been 11 months) and he's still in the house <3 so fun!
ReplyINVEST IN GOOD DOOR LOCKES FOR YOU ROOM AND PEACE OF MIND. NO ONE KNOWS HIM BETTER THAN HIS MOTHER AND THE SLIGHTEST SUGGESTION OF NEEDING MORE PRIVATCY AS A YOUNG WOMAN SHOULD SNAP MOM TO ATTION. GIRLS NURTCHURE AND GUYS RUN A MUCK. DONT ALLOW HIS BUDDIES TO RUN A MUCK IN YOUR HOUSE/SPACE.
Replymy mom doesnt like me lol
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