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i had sex with a guy while i was drunk and i don’t remember anything. he wasn’t drunk and i think i gave him consent because ive liked him for a year. i am 14 and he is 15 and he was experienced and i wasn’t. i completely regret it and it’s eating me alive so i have to share it with someone
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It’s okay, take a deep breathe and try to forget about the situation entirely, you got this.
ReplyWith all due respect, forgetting about the situation entirely is terrible advice. Youre asking her to ignore her feelings and pretend it never happened. How are you supposed to ask for help if the answer youre given is to just forget it? Mistakes happen, but we must learn from them, not suppress them.
I appreciate the fact that you took time to try to help and im sorry if i came across as rude, i just reject the idea that forgetting situations entirely has ever helped anyone deal with the mental repercussions
ReplyIm sorry but no, dont forget this. This is important, you need to learn from this. Think about how you feel and reflect on what has happened. This is your life and its only as important as you allow it to be, if youre getting drunk and fooling around, it reflects in how you feel after. If you feel like crap, chances are you betrayed yourself and that miserable feeling is a reflectionof that. Please try to reconsider what youre doing, underage drinking only leads to poor decision making and in some cases permanent, life altering outcomes. I dont mean to lecture you, but this should be a wake up call. Take better care of yourself so you never have to find yourself in such a vulnerable situation.
You made a mistake and thats ok. The silver lining is that nothing permanent happened. Please, save the bottle for when youre older and more emotionally matured. I know it can be fun in the moment but you just dont have the experiences needed to make informed decisions, decision making is even more hindered when you drink. Im sorry you feel bad and i hope you get out of that soon. Take care of yourself, enjoy your life sober for now and thank you for sharing. I hope you never have to be in a situation like this again.
ReplyYou cannot give consent if you are intoxicated. If you are too drunk to drive then you cannot give consent. It does not matter your age. I’m sorry you were taken advantage of.
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