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3 months ago · · Sexual harassment, · Explicit
I’m a 16 year old female.
I don’t know how to explain my body figure, I’m 5’4 and my weight is between 120 and 126. I’m built like an hourglass mixed with a rectangle.
My first SA.. well it’s more than that; I was 12. My boyfriend (who forced me to date him) was having family issues and he had to stay with us. I fell asleep watching Nemo.. and he took advantage of me. He didn’t start puberty so I didn’t bleed and really had nothing to worry about. He’s out of my life.
Nothing really happened until I was about 14, this is when I started getting random attention from older men out in public. A lot of it was just sexual harassment, catcalling.
One man, balding probably in his 40’s with a case of beer in his hand came up to me in the store.
“How old are you?”
“I’m a minor…”
“Oh.. how old?”
He then walked off and continued to eye me down while he was checking out. It was so unnerving that he would still be interested in a minor. I was in sweatpants and a loose crop top that covered my stomach still
Another story, I was sitting out front of a store, leaning against my grandmas car. This man, asked if I was okay! I responded with yes I’m waiting for my family.
He didn’t go inside. He went back to his car. I turn around and he’s blowing kisses and trying to call me over, he then pulls out his phone like he’s on a call and I hide my face for a bit. I look back and he has this folder pulled out, he then starts writing on it. I see my grandma walk out of the store, he then starts pulling out and drives towards me FAST so I run to my grandma and this random man loading his truck said “hello” to me as I was bolting towards the front doors. I was in leggings and a jacket.
Another story at a store, this man was eyeing me and I walked past him.. he turned around and watched. He then started appearing all around the store, he walked by once and said something, I couldn’t hear him. He then walked down an isle and immediately turned back to me and said “hey cutie.” For 10 more minutes he was appearing all around the store. I was wearing leggings and a long sleeved crop top.
Most of the times when I go to the park, there’s boys who catcall. It doesn’t matter what I wear.
I had a boyfriend, when I was 14.. 8th grade, he’d always try and make conversations sexual, he’d try and get me to touch him.. he’d pull me by the stairs and try and put his hand down my pants, he accomplished it many times. He’d poke me from behind with a pencil when I was walking up the steps, he’d try and kiss me and touch me.
Another story, I was at GameStop and in front of this guy at checkout.. I felt his hand touch me. I turned around and he was trying to pretend he didn’t do anything. I was wearing a long sleeved oversized sweater and shorts.
The worst story of all, I was late 15- early 16, I was with my best friend and this guy. She fell asleep, I fell asleep. He was beside me.. I remember the feeling of his hands moving up my legs, he had put my legs on top of his lap and was touching me. I woke up not even 2 inches away from his face, he was trying to kiss me. He panicked and asked if he should leave, I said yes.
I woke her up, in tears…
A few months pass, I tried to forgive him. He denied the accusations anyways. I find out that they are getting closer, hanging out almost everyday.
She broke the news by sending me a picture of her laying on his chest. “Guess what..”
I immediately started going off, cussing her out and saying whatever I could. She defended him. She asked what I did to cause him to touch me. She said I’m the one who SA him.. he then TOLD ME he lied about me SA HIM, I called him out and she forgave him for that. He’s cheated on her and is extremely manipulative. He also has another accusation against him of him assaulting another girl while she slept.
They broke up. But I think they got back together and won’t tell me. The last time I saw her, she had hickies. Lots of them. She says “he isn’t like that.”
She was my best friend, since we were really young… she complains about how we aren’t close anymore but something is different about her.
I was wearing shorts and a jacket.
There’s many more about catcalling and harassment.. my family doesn’t know how much it happens, I don’t ask for it. I never asked for it. I’m only 16 and the number of incidents is more than both hands.