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1 month ago · 2 · Advice, +2
how long should I give him space and how long does he needs space to talk again and discuss things(we are broken up but it's more like a break to work on ourselves which is what's best for us).
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I would say wait to see if he reaches out to you again.if he doesn’t then I would suggest to leave it all behind. It’ll end up pushing him even more away the more you push to talk. I am in the current situation where my bf wants space and everytime we talk we end up fighting.
Give him space. It’s my experience that my boyfriend sometimes just needs space and time away to think and figure things out. If I push him too much while he’s in a stressed mood, he’ll clam up and not want to talk about it. But eventually he’ll get back to his usual state of mind and is able to talk with me about it after he has had time to process it internally.
Not sure if your boyfriend is the same but guys generally need space to process things internally. So wait and let him reach out to you and don’t force it. When we went distant one time, he eventually reached out to me again because he got to a better place and managed to figure things out. It’s hard because you don’t know if it’s a forever break up or if it’s a bump in a long road together. So I’d say use the space to prepare yourself for being single if that’s how it ends up. You need to learn to be okay if he doesn’t reach out again.
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